Love and religion

Love and religion

Their people  who care more about religion when it comes to love in a relationship,cause this is one of the features of choosing a life partner. Some people  are bothered emotionally and mentally about this.

This is because it's religion she/he has know for all of his/her life or it mighty be the religion of the entire family.

On this matter I will reflect on my friend, who was from a devoted Moslem family, but used to fall for Christian men who were also not willing to convert. It was not because had she never fallen for Moslem men; she was of course heart broken  by a few and she started giving attention to other religions.

Her luck was in them. She found them (some) understanding, caring and loving, in fact  willing to give her anything. That luck I personally have never got though a Christian. She ended breaking-up with all of them and up to now (5 years) she is still waiting for that perfect man of her religion to come which the family  agrees with.

But these are key points to look at  before making a decision or some of the answers  I used to give her;

Know what you want

With this issue, its a matter of thinking about yourself and your future life. Hearts choose for us the people to love. It's  about you to know what you want and makes you happy. When you start caring about what other people or family would say,then you are breaking your own heart. Those people had their life and story and it's time for you to build yours too.

Know your partner.

It's better to know your partner and what level his/her religion is at. There people  who are  &so religious& and others are not. The &so religious & are so hard to handle or you might not be able to copy up with them. On the other hand those who are not &so religious & might just accept you the way you are.

Talk to your partner .

It's  more important to talk to your partner about this issue of religion.  Either to convert to one or accept your the way you are. It's better to agree.

Make a decision.

Here you can make your conclusion and decision.  But don't let any third party make for you this decision. Follow your heart and Member this is your life; your future; your family and your story.

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